The nature of the successful match is never quite said aloud by Conrad, but
it is this: Charles requires Emily to humanize his material ambitions, while
Emily requires Charles to materialize her humanitarian ambitions. See the key
hints in this chapter where Charles admits that "the best of my feelings
are in your keeping" just below, and where Emily admits that Charles "had
given a vast shape to the vagueness of her unselfish ambitions."
As stated in a previous note
,
their relationship stands allegorically for the relationship between materialism
and altruism in the abstract, thereby illustrating a fundamental aspect of those
forces in modern history.
The "successful match," however, is actually a superficial alliance
overlying a fundamental opposition. Charles Gould actually cares nothing for
her humanitarian goals; Mrs Gould actually cares nothing for his goal of rational
order.